My ex used to go as far as to ask if I was gay. She just could not fathom me wanting to be out in the woods camping and paddling with other guys when I had her at home. She used to get so jealous of a piece of plastic. She could not understand the "whys". She only saw that I was passionate about more in life than just her and she took offense to that and would strive to make my life less enjoyable by trying to take paddling away from me or forcing herself (and kids) along on EVERY trip...funny though because it only made me resent her and want to get away that much more.
My phone and my home are open to you anytime you need it bro. Glad you could make it up last Friday and do a little forgetting...for the evening anyway.