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Re: question Class V- kids or age?? riverhythm New
Date: Jun 05 2008, 2:47 GMT
From: GRITS

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women *usually* have more fear on the river than men at their same skill level. I don't know why. A friend of mine who posts to this board says that women seem to have a much better sense of self preservation than men, and while that's funny, it's also true, at least in my experience. Even women with Class V skills seem more cautious than men. Of course this is a total generalization and I've known careful men boaters (no kids) and fearless women boaters (no kids).

Also, most of the men paddlers I know that have kids are also more hesitant about what they paddle; that seems to be true regardless of gender. If you or I die on the river, it'd be sad for all our family and friends and I'm sure they'd throw us a nice funeral, but at least we're not leaving behind other human beings who are completely dependent on us for their physical, mental, and emotional well being for a number of years. So it makes sense for parents to think that way and be extra-extra-cautious.

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sad Oh shit.. now what?? riverhythm New
note I think everyone deals with fear, not just moms and women. Sorry I know that's not very helpful. :) <NT> SciFisch New
note No it's helpful.  Nice to know I'm not alone AND that it's not jus cuz I'm a chick! <NT> riverhythm New
feedback There is an article in AW about dealing with fear ... love2kayak New
idea Why do you feel the need to make the fear go away? Why not use it instead? Wilko New
note I completely understand where you're coming from, except that I let my fear get the better of me in the past. GRITS New
th_up Wow!  You do know! riverhythm New
th_up "I like the fear feeling better than the shitty feeling I get when I walk stuff I know I can run" GRITS New
smile me too. i swam power house just last year. <NT> riverhythm New
more I appreciate your wording.. sensitivre but honest. <NT> riverhythm New
smile If I didn't have kids, I'd sell my body for food, gas, & boat the gnarliest sh!t ever! BLUEEZ New
note How much for a weekend rental?... rroberts New
smile I'm moving too! riverhythm New
question Where to? I left AL 8 years ago and have never looked back, although I do miss the boating community there. GRITS New
note knox or chatt.  depends  on selling my bham home.  i wont miss it! <NT> riverhythm New
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