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Re: angry The attitudes of some of the newer, younger paddlers is gettng on my nerves! hardboater New
Date: Sep 23 2005, 17:49 GMT
From: cubby_huckster

I too find myself playing not only tour guide but instructor as well, a role that I honestly enjoy 90% of the time.  It feels good to share something you love with someone else and see the smiles in return.

It is important to remember, though, that in this role you are responsible for those you are with.  In your case, the max number you felt you could SAFELY conduct down the Ocoee was two.  Your trip, your decision.

This guys backlash at being left out is no surprise as he probably feels he can take care of himself and just wanted to join the party.  This does not justify the slamfest he unleashed to your friends.

Don't let him suck you into the namecalling game though.  

Give him a call and explain WHY you could not accomodate him, tell him your upset about the slander, and then step up and offer to take him out with his friend another time.  

Being Ohio boaters, we need all the partners we can develop.  If the guy is still an ass, cut ties knowing you went far and above to be the better mentor.  Just my 2 cents.

Have fun on the Lower G this weekend, wish I could join you...

rody

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note Thing is, I dont even know the guy.... hardboater New
note Sounds like he needs a Werner tattoo... SpasticPlastic New
th_up Good thing is that they all stepped to him and told him the way it is and why.  They supported me like friends should. <NT> hardboater New
note See everything is cool man.  Its gonna be a good Gauley Fest weekend.   SpasticPlastic New
note Idea for ya.... hardboater New
note Dude I would love to paddle the middle and lower with yah.... SpasticPlastic New
note Well, in any case, yer welcome to join us for the Middle if it would boost her confidence having a strong group along. hardboater New
note Check your email... SpasticPlastic New
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